
Therapy for Cycle breakers
Terapia para rompeciclos
Relational | Culturally Sensitive | Trauma informed | Creative
Being your families cycle breaker means…
You’ve started noticing the patterns, themes, and cycles that have shaped your family for generations. At times, it feels like there’s no escape, that you’re destined to repeat what has always been. You may feel defeated, lost, or conflicted, wondering if it’s even possible to break free. But the very fact that you’re here, questioning, noticing, and seeking something different, is proof that the cycle is already shifting.
I’ve been there… and if you’re the first in your family to name these cycles, it can feel lonely, confusing, and exhausting. Carrying the weight of change, the pressure to create a new path, and the uncertainty of where to even begin, it’s a lot. But you don’t have to navigate this alone. Healing is not about fixing everything overnight; it’s about taking intentional steps, honoring what’s brought you here, and giving yourself permission to create something different.
Foraging a path together may look like
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Foraging a path together may look like ~
Naming the cycle
Identifying what’s shaped you (grief, love, strength etc.)
Coming home to yourself + reconnecting to self
Creating a future where you have a choice
Cycle breaking therapy is for you…
You’re questioning the narratives you grew up with
You want to reconnect with your roots while healing personal and collective wounds
You’re exploring how your upbringing shaped the way you love, trust, and show up in relationships
You want to build a future that looks different from your past
You feel the weight of being “the strong one” in your family
You realizes now as a parent, you want something different for your kids
Frequently Asked Questions
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Yes. Healing doesn’t happen in isolation. It is deeply connected to the cultural, ancestral, and systemic forces that shape our lives. In our work together, I welcome and honor your ancestral wisdom, stories, and lived experiences. I believe that healing is not about erasing the past but about understanding how it lives within us both in the wounds we carry and the resilience we inherit.
I am always happy to hold space for conversations about lineage, intergenerational themes, and the ways systemic oppression impacts mental health. Whether it’s exploring the burdens you’ve carried for your family, reconnecting with lost cultural traditions, or navigating the tension between honoring your roots and creating something new, I invite every part of you into the room.
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Feeling disconnected from your roots can bring up a variety of emotions and feelings. Including grief, longing, and confusion tied to where you belong. In our work together, I hold space for all of it! The questions, the ache, the desire to reconnect in a way that feels safe and meaningful to you.
Reconnection doesn’t have to follow a certain path. Sometimes, it looks like exploring the stories you were told (or not told) about your lineage. Other times, it’s grieving the loss of cultural traditions or reimagining your relationship with your ancestry on your own terms. Whether your disconnection stems from immigration, family estrangement, systemic oppression, or simply a lack of access to your history, I am here to walk alongside you.
Together, we can explore ways to gently reclaim pieces of your heritage, honor the resilience that still lives in you, and create space for belonging that feels authentic and not forced. And if you’re unsure where to start, that’s okay, too. This work unfolds at your own pace, with curiosity, compassion, and the understanding that connection can take many different forms.
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It’s completely okay if you don’t know where to start or how to express what you’re feeling. Many of us grow up in environments where emotions weren’t openly expressed or were even suppressed, making it difficult to access or articulate what’s going on inside.
Building emotional language, exploring your feelings, and understanding how your emotions show up is often one of the first steps in this work. Together, we’ll create a safe space where you can begin to name and acknowledge your emotional experience, even if that feels overwhelming at first.
There’s no “right” way to express yourself—sometimes the journey starts with simply identifying the emotions you’ve struggled to put into words. It may feel hard at first, but we’ll take it one step at a time. Whether that means exploring your emotional experiences through words, body sensations, or other expressions that feel authentic to you, I’ll be there to guide and support you.
You don’t need to have it all figured out right away. This work is about understanding and honoring your emotions, one layer at a time. If you're unsure where to start, that's perfectly fine. Together, we’ll slowly build the vocabulary and the emotional awareness you need to better understand and express your experience.
This is a collaborative journey, and I’m here to help you explore, name, and express your feelings in a way that feels empowering and healing.
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Yes, absolutely. This is one of my specialties and the heart of this work. Our upbringing deeply shapes how we relate to others whether in romantic relationships, friendships, or family dynamics. The patterns, behaviors, and emotional responses we learned early on often show up in how we interact with the people around us today.
Cycle-breaking is often relational it happens in our connections with others. Whether it’s the way we communicate, the boundaries we set, or the patterns we fall into, our relationships can be a mirror that reflects the deeper work we need to do. In therapy, we’ll explore how your past experiences and family dynamics influence your current relationships, helping you understand where these patterns originated and how they play out.
Together, we’ll look at the behaviors, triggers, and emotional reactions that come up when you’re interacting with others. We’ll explore how you might be recreating certain cycles, sometimes without even realizing it, and work towards building new ways of relating that align with your healing and values. This may involve setting new boundaries, healing old wounds, or learning to communicate in ways that were never modeled for you.
This journey is not just about understanding your history—it’s about creating the space to change how you relate to the people you care about, so you can build connections that feel authentic and good to you!
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This is such an important question, and one that many people in cycle-breaking work wrestle with. Breaking harmful cycles doesn’t mean rejecting your culture or the traditions that have shaped who you are. Instead, it’s about finding a way to honor both your cultural heritage and your personal growth.
In therapy, we’ll explore what aspects of your culture and family traditions are important to you and bring you a sense of connection, while also identifying which patterns might be harmful or no longer serve you. Sometimes, the cycles we need to break are rooted in outdated or harmful beliefs and behaviors that were passed down through generations. This work isn’t about abandoning the whole of your culture, but about making conscious choices about what you carry forward and what you heal or release.
Together, we’ll explore how to create a balance between honoring your roots and forging a healthier path for yourself, your relationships, and your future. This might look like reclaiming certain practices, rituals, or values that connect you to your ancestry, while also creating space to challenge traditions that may have been rooted in trauma, shame, or fear.
The goal isn’t to reject your family’s history but to create a version of healing and growth that feels aligned with who you are today—one that still connects you to your culture, but also creates room for your emotional well-being, freedom, and authenticity. It’s about honoring your lineage, while making sure you aren’t carrying forward pain that isn’t yours to hold.